Thank you Sally, matter of fact Thank you everyone. Wake is Saturday. They are doing everything at the Funeral home, which is good. Burial will be in the Spring. My Poor Families. On both sides. Too much on everyone's plates. Poor Shawn's mom and dad. Omg, We as parent's are not suppose to bury our Children.
Weather is going to be the coldest of the year so far..- 6 idk if y'all know what that means, but sit on ice, that's it.. I will have on layers and scarf for my face and cover my oxygen in my nose. Hope I make it.
I'm getting around more and more each day..I putter here and there.
A heart attack between you and me seems not right at this age. I loved my nephew, but he was also in a deep depression, quitting a 20 year job he was having difficulty times at. Trying to find new work, very hard. He had gained much weight.And the job he was doing was delivery pizza's.. From a machienest to pizza..not good.
This is all between us please. If John can get the funeral notice on my fb he can put it up if he wants to. This is very hard on Bob. Shawn used to come visit us a lot and he worked with his uncle when Bob ran the mill. He called me his favorite Aunt!! Always made me feel so good. That's all. I know I can open up to u all b/ c I know it stays here. Ty all. I'm so sad!!! I wish I could make Bob feel better... But he is better with Death than me. Ok.ttyl
Gail I know how hard it is to have someone die with a heart attack at a young age. My Dad died in 1974 at the age of 46 yr old with a massive heart attack. Shocked my whole family. Dad never had heart problems and life was good. It just came out of the blue. To this day I still can't believe that it happened but I have come to accept it. My Mom was 43 yr old when he died. She never remarried and lived to be 84 yr old. She just died this past September.
I will say a prayer for the family wishing you comfort and strength in your time of need.
Thank you John, I meant if you can put the link up on here? No worries if you can't.
David, I'm so sorry for you having to try and deal with that. It's never easy to " just" get over it. Sounds like you have PTSD. That is awful for what you all went through.I'm so sorry you also lost you're mom. That scares me. My mom just turned 80 and omg I'm not good with death. My dad died at 46 also. My mom never married either. I'm so close to my mom I don't know what I will do?
Starting since This October, my close cousin dropped dead of massive heart failure, it put me in a shock. We were very close. Next within a few weeks. I found out my brother has cancer..( prostate) he already did all of the radition treatments now he has to wait 3 months to see if it's gone. Dr wanted him to also take hormones, but my brother wouldn't have anything to do with that, no matter what we told him. Night before Christmas his girlfriend ended up in the hospital very weak and now is paralyzed. She has Guillain Barre syndrome.. Its a disease you get from a bacteria in you're system. Takes up to a year and even longer to get better, she's in a nursing home right now.
Then all this with me. I feel like my family is falling apart. I wish I can help my brother and his gf.. But I can't do anything like that dr said. Till I'm better. They don't want me near sick patients like nursing homes and crowded places BC I had sepsis. And they still are not positive how this affected my lungs.
So hard. Now poor Shawn. I can't thank John and Susie enough to tell me about this forum. I really don't know what I would do without you all. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. I love you everyone, I can't say it enough! You all saved my life..
Hi Gail, my heart goes out to you hun, you sure have had a hard row to hoe.
Just want to let you know how proud I am of you, life has kept tossing curve balls at you, but you have never faulted, you just kept bouncing back. I sincerely hope that you get some so very deserved sunshine in you life very soon.