Well, my uncle Johnny passed away a little while ago, we all think he has been waiting all this time for his son David my cousin, to pass away. David kissed him goodbye and he died peacefully. Rest in peace Uncle Johnny I will miss you with all my heart and soul, as you stepped in as a father for me I will always love you Love Gail.
Post by lavishgail on May 10, 2018 11:22:07 GMT -5
Thank you everyone for your kind thoughts and prayers. Yes he will be missed by many he was a very good man. My aunt had passed away in the 90s, and his mom live to be almost a hundred maybe a little over, and we lost his daughter 2 years ago of a heart failure, she was only 62. I love that family with all my heart, my aunt and uncle were like my mom and dad, when my dad passed away they took care of me also before he passed away when I was very young and he was very sick I lived with them for a very long time.
So Spike, you're right, very sad face. I've been very busy the past couple of months helping my cousin to keep her happy and trying to be there for her fur anytime she needed me. She is the youngest, and told me she feels at peace because she told him everything she needed to tell him while he was awake and doing better.
Tomorrow is the wake from 4 to 7 and Saturday st-charles Church here in Pittsfield Massachusetts is his funeral, he will be buried beside his wife and right beside there is his mom and dad and brother, he leaves one sister. Thank you again for your kind kind concerns and thoughts and comments my heart feels like it's going to burst. Love Gail XXOO
Post by lavishgail on May 12, 2018 22:20:58 GMT -5
everybody, well today we buried my uncle. We had a celebration of life afterwards at a friend of ours restaurant called Port after that I could barely walk to the car I was so tired even after drinking coffee and a Pepsi it did not keep me awake. I have a little bit of a hard time breathing today but I was okay, my youngest cousin was a year older than me the one I told y'all about, is taking this is very very hard and I knew this was going to happen.
In speaking with her today she told me she was unconsolable. I told her I will never leave her, and that I love her. She lost her mom and dad and her sister, and her other sister and brother won't have anything to do with her that I don't know why?
Terrible things happened during a death and everybody Mourns differently, perhaps she's reading into this wrong , I don't know so therefore nothing I say or do will help her at this moment so all I can do is pray for her day and night.
I pray to the Lord that she does nothing drastic because that really scared me.
Okay I'm headed off to bed I'm very very exhausted I love all of you thank you for your kind thoughts and words of concern y'all made me feel better.
I'm so sorry for your loss, Gail. May he rest in peace. I will include your cousin in my prayers also. As you say, we all mourn differently & it breaks my heart to hear that she is having such a hard time. My love & prayers are with you & your family during this time.