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Post by John on Sept 4, 2016 19:29:21 GMT -5
Sorry for your loss Gail  |
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Post by David on Sept 4, 2016 22:08:35 GMT -5
Praying for Gail and the families involved.
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Post by jim on Sept 5, 2016 5:21:56 GMT -5
Holding your hand and hugging you sweetheart.  |
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Post by lavishgail on Sept 6, 2016 15:53:42 GMT -5
Ty everyone, It's been a really rough weekend. Today is the day my best friend and Cousin Dawn died a year ago, also my family member a cousin passed away last week,She had a nice long life and was a sweetheart, she was 95. and 2 wakes in a row, so much for me. So hard. Idk what to do. It's very stressful and I take death very hard. But ty all.
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Post by jarca on Sept 6, 2016 16:08:27 GMT -5
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Post by David on Sept 6, 2016 19:04:07 GMT -5
Been sad for me too today. Sept 6 a year ago is when my Mom died. It is strange how the date jumped around.
She actually died on Sunday night at 11:47 pm but by the time Hospice got here it was Sept 7 so they put it on Labor Day.
This year Sept 6 falls on Tuesday and the 7th on Wednesday. I still see her dying on Sunday night.
My Mom wanted me to be happy and don't drink alcohol. I am trying to live up to that even tho I miss her a lot.
Hang in there Gail 
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Post by lavishgail on Sept 7, 2016 0:33:52 GMT -5
Oh David I'm so sorry, that's so hard. I remember you saying you're mom died, I just didn't know it was a year ago. Wow we both went through hell together, and didn't even know each other yet!
She's very proud of you bc you quit drinking. And that's everything David. You're a wonderful man. Keep up the great and very hard work! You have me on you're side. I'm also very proud of you. I myself had problems with drinking to much, it's been 5 years since I've drank a lot. I've had maybe a handful in 5 years. I no longer drink like I did.
I have a beer once in a great while very rare. Or maybe a wine, but very rarely. Might as well not even have it really. I just do to be socialable.
Ty for sharing David. 😙😙
Ty all for Prayers and Good wishes to.
Love Gail XOXO.
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Post by jarca on Sept 7, 2016 16:01:27 GMT -5
David, I am so sorry for your loss. To lose a parent is so hard. However, congratulations on quitting drinking: I'm sure your mother would be so proud of you.
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Post by ozboy on Sept 7, 2016 20:08:52 GMT -5
So sorry Gail, David and everyone that has felt loss....Sometimes i wonder if i have become immune to this feeling over time....i lost both parents tragically almost 20 years now, so virtually only had my missus n 3 kids as family.....and well that is an ongoing emotional issue.......besides being on my last forum for many years, i have seen many friends pass on and that does affect you, even if you rarely talk about them.....
David your mum would be really proud of you and so am i..it is also a hideous addiction that never really goes away........Gail i send my prayers and best wishes......
Peter
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Post by lavishgail on Sept 8, 2016 2:21:10 GMT -5
Oh Thank you Peter.. yes I also lost my daddy. It's very hard. I have my mom. My brother's too. I can't take death very good. I have a sister in which she hates me. It's very sad. She doesn't like anyone, and has made my life very hard these past few years. And this past couple of weeks I can't begin to explain, I give it to God.
Anyway I'm feeling a little better when I try to keep busy. Ty all.
Love Gail XOXO
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Post by ozboy on Sept 8, 2016 7:19:22 GMT -5
Not long ago i go the news that my nephew 32 got home after being in emergency in a country town over in NSW......OZ....He was suffering Gastro with bad stomach pains so they did a quick check and sent him home with some meds...The family..Dad, mum and sister sat down to watch TV after dinner and the lad said he would go freshen up and be back in a bit....after an hour or so, his mother felt that he was taking a bit long so she went to see if he was ok.....they found him slumped over on the toilet..His intestines had ruptured and he had died....
Not fully caught up with what exactly happened as my sis called me to let me know......I am sure the hospital has a few questions to answer......Very sad xxx
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Post by lavishgail on Sept 9, 2016 7:31:40 GMT -5
Oh my, I'm so sorry Peter. Very sad. That's so awful. My prayers for you.
God bless everyone in need today and everyday! My thoughts are with you.
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Post by jim on Sept 9, 2016 8:35:19 GMT -5
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Post by ozboy on Sept 9, 2016 10:00:23 GMT -5
Finally got the real story re my nephew tonight so here it is......Once again another example of what can go wrong in a public hospital, as it is happening too often.....The last one concerned 2 new born babies that were accidently given the wrong gas instead of oxygen and both babies died.....This is one of the more publicised reports but many slip under the radar... I very rarely post family issues online but this sort of fits in with a variety of miss care at some of our hospitals...Besides what happened to me, last night I got a call from my sis about our nephew who was 34 and very fit young guy....Only son with one sister who lives in Orange NSW.....Wonder if any members live there and may have heard but sounds like there was a fairly large turn out at the funeral.....All info has been passed on, so i cannot guarantee what happened........He had terrible stomach pains and went to emergency where a couple of staff looked over him....They felt it was Gastroenteritis and was given some meds and sent home...That night he told his mum he loved her and decided to go to bed early...... The next morning he never showed as usual, so she decided to check his room...He was not there....So thinking he may have gone out early, she happened to check the bathroom and found him lying on the floor in toilet...He appeared unresponsive and 000 could not help except take him to emergency where he was pronounced dead...With the Coroner and Police now involved, the verdict at autopsy was a Perforated Colon not Gastro....His name is Christopher McKenzie and i was wondering if anyone in Orange had heard any news....It supposedly took place last Saturday........ tributes.lithgowmercury.com.au/obituaries/lithgowmercury-au/obituary.aspx?pid=181268960 |
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Post by jarca on Sept 9, 2016 20:12:11 GMT -5
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Post by lavishgail on Sept 9, 2016 21:21:20 GMT -5
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Post by jim on Sept 9, 2016 21:29:43 GMT -5
Dear Peter. That is so tragic, my heart goes out to you and your family. I have a sister who lives in Orange, it was her husband who passed away last month. Next time I talk with her, I’ll ask if she knew Christopher. |
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Post by lavishgail on Sept 9, 2016 21:44:21 GMT -5
Very sad..I have not heard anything. So sorry Peter. XOXOO big hugs.
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Post by barb7330 on Sept 10, 2016 11:51:56 GMT -5
...So sorry Peter for your loss...Makes you wonder about the health care system. Not good here in Ontario... |
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Post by lavishgail on Sept 11, 2016 7:57:13 GMT -5
Billy's wake is today. I'm so sad about this. But I know he is in heaven. With his big smile. It's pouring down rain too. It's going to be a long hard day. I stayed in bed all day yesterday.
Ty for prayers!
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Post by David on Sept 11, 2016 21:19:01 GMT -5
Weep, but briefly, for your loved ones
as they enter into the Kingdom of God.
For they shall possess a Joy and Peace that
is unattainable on God's earthly realm.
Rather, rejoice in their Everlasting and total
Happiness, for their eyes have seen God.
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Post by lavishgail on Sept 12, 2016 5:37:04 GMT -5
Oh David,
This is so beautiful! Very beautiful, it gave me chills. I want to give you a great big hug (((( David )))) xoxo thank you
God Bless you David.
Love Gail.
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Post by David on Sept 12, 2016 17:48:50 GMT -5
My daughter gave me that when my Mom died. It gave me comfort and strength.
I wanted to pass it on.
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Post by lavishgail on Sept 14, 2016 11:38:31 GMT -5
It also gave me comfort and strength. Thank you so much.
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