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Post by lavishgail on Apr 12, 2021 20:04:24 GMT -5
I wrote this in today's post, but am unsure everyone will see it.
It is with deep sadness in my heart and soul John our Special friend has passed away last night peacefully. Susie told me today, I want EVERYONE of his friends to know. She has all the funeral services pre arranged. I believe they did this together. When I get all notices I will let y'all know Susie is very busy I'm sure. Take care my sweetiest Johnny Angel 👼 fly with you're Angels Johnny, we all love you! Sue we are all here for you!
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Post by Dave AB on Apr 13, 2021 1:06:35 GMT -5
This is sad news. John has been a wonderful person who did a GREAT job of keeping our COPD forum alive. People like that cannot be replaced. We will all miss him.
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Post by lavishgail on Apr 13, 2021 3:21:34 GMT -5
He was a very Gentle soul, who wanted everyone to love one another! Simple. He loved simplicity!
You sure are right Dave, God makes us all different types. But he was always my Johnny Angel 👼. And always will be.
Ps. He told Sue that I was the only person I could call my Johnny Angel. He was so cute!
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Post by jade on Apr 13, 2021 4:09:40 GMT -5
Sincere condolences to Sue and family, sending you caring thoughts ♥️
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Post by lavishgail on Apr 13, 2021 6:42:56 GMT -5
Hi Jade, and all others, I will relay all messages to Susie. She has to go to funeral home today, John will be creamated. And I think no services only Sue will be there I'm not to sure as she is very distraught. But everything was prearranged for Susie. Poor kid!! I will keep everyone in touch.
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Post by sallybrown on Apr 13, 2021 7:01:01 GMT -5
John left a wonderful legacy. He will be sorely missed.
Prayers for Sue and all John’s family and friends. He leaves a big void.
Thanks, Gail, for keeping us updated.
❤️🙏✝️ Every time I see a lit candle I will remember John.
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Post by lavishgail on Apr 13, 2021 7:07:00 GMT -5
Dear Sally,
Me too!
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Post by barry on Apr 14, 2021 9:08:26 GMT -5
Sue- Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. John you are free to run and play again
Be safe
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Post by aero63 on Apr 14, 2021 15:10:43 GMT -5
I was truly heartbroken when Sue let me know. I wasn’t truly prepared. I send prayers and hugs and love with John and hopes for comfort for Sue. I loved how John always said, “My Susie”. I will miss talking g to him. Fly easy dear friend
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Post by jim on Apr 14, 2021 20:59:56 GMT -5
Even though I knew it was coming, I was not prepared for the passing of John. A true friend and I'm so glad to have had him in my life.
Sue, you are in all of our thoughts and prayers, may the good lord look over you and protect you in this time of great sorrow.
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Post by jim on Apr 15, 2021 5:10:46 GMT -5
A Fallen Limb
A limb has fallen from the family tree.
I keep hearing a voice that says,
“Grieve not for me.
Remember the best times,
the laughter, the song.
The good life I lived
while I was strong.
Continue my heritage,
I’m counting on you.
Keep smiling and surely
the sun will shine through.
My mind is at ease,
my soul is at rest.
Remembering all,
how I truly was blessed.
Continue traditions,
no matter how small.
Go on with your life,
don’t worry about falls.
I miss you all dearly,
so keep up your chin.
Until the day comes
we’re together again.”
– Author Unknown
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Post by lavishgail on Apr 15, 2021 17:22:01 GMT -5
Jim, That is beautiful. I can picture John saying that! Did you make that up Jim?
I was not ready even tho I knew
Oh my gosh the pain of it all. I don't think John wanted to go? He even said will you come with me my Susie? Awwwee...
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Post by sallybrown on Apr 16, 2021 7:04:54 GMT -5
Jim - that was lovely. Thanks for sharing. It is so appropriate... 😘
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Post by jim on Apr 17, 2021 7:23:39 GMT -5
Hi Gail, I didn't make it up, I found it a few years ago, but I can't remember where.
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Post by lavishgail on Apr 17, 2021 15:15:26 GMT -5
Wow, Absolutely beautiful Jim!
Thank you for putting that poem up. I enjoyed it very much!
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Post by sharon on Apr 23, 2021 16:26:40 GMT -5
This is so sad. He was always one to be welcoming on this site. RIP John. I lost another friend a few months ago from copd too. Makes me so sad, I have known quit a few that have passed from the other site I used to belong to and is never easy.
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Post by sharon on Apr 23, 2021 16:44:06 GMT -5
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Post by lavishgail on Apr 23, 2021 23:40:58 GMT -5
I'm so sorry to everyone that has a broken heart for John, poor John. Sometimes when he couldn't sleep he would call me and say "well Gail I guess I have C.O.P.D." I would say" oh I ) it me too. And it would make him feel safer I hope, he would calm down and not shake. His shaking got so bad he would get so nerved up. Poor John. He had an awesome life.. Sue had no services just graveside I gueas. Her and a friend w ent bc I though.)
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Post by lavishgail on Apr 23, 2021 23:43:41 GMT -5
I darn forgot what I was getting to the last post lost my thoughts  |
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Post by Suzanne (Suz) on Apr 26, 2021 12:49:17 GMT -5
My prayers and thoughts are with Sue - sorry to hear of her loss. Virtual hugs to everyone here. Take care.
SUZ
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Post by lavishgail on Apr 28, 2021 1:06:13 GMT -5
Susie is not well at all. I've been trying to reach out. Does not matter if I feel good or not I'll force my way out! But she can barley talk. I'm sure she's not eating she lost so much weight she's so tiny. Anyone have any ideas for what I can do for her. I ask her if I can bring food maybe I can bring her , her favorite food from Jimmy D's. I think she either gets the pork chops or half of chicken. I'm surely broke right now but in a few days I should have some! Any ideas sally? Jade, I miss you too. Suz, anyone Spike? Anyway I know what I needed but, what I needed is most likely. Not the same Susie needs? Please help me I don't want her to die of a broken 💔💔 and soul! I love all of you! Sally I could dig a big huge hug from you! I have a picture in my mind what you look like, and one thing is you have beautiful shinny eyes and blue right? I'm hearing blue or brown gee right there is the whole spectrum.
Help you guys Jim do you have any ideas what I can do for her?
Please everyone if you have any ideas besides mine write them down if you can?
Thank you my friends!!
Maybe I'll just go there unannounced and surprise her. Idk? I'm not the Barger type. She did say anytime I'm welcome! Maybe tomorrow will be good?
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Post by sallybrown on Apr 28, 2021 6:55:31 GMT -5
Dear Gail - I think what Susie needs is a true friend. If she told you that you are welcome anytime, I would go. I know it will be hard for you to take that step but once you do it will be fine. (I am speaking from personal experience.). We all tend to avoid what makes us uncomfortable...and this is certainly one of those situations. Maybe call and let her know you want to stop by for a bit? Let her get herself ready. I usually say that I need a hug and a chat. Maybe bring a few doughnuts 🍩 or a coffee cake?
I think Susie needs to see someone else who loved John and is mourning his passing.
Just my thoughts...
🙏 continue for dear Susie.
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Post by Suzanne (Suz) on Apr 28, 2021 8:04:11 GMT -5
I totally agree with Sally.
Let us know how it goes.
SUZ
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Post by jim on Apr 28, 2021 21:53:18 GMT -5
Hi Gail, at the moment Sue would be feeling very lost and alone, not knowing what to do, or who to turn to, I think it would be nice if you could visit her.
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Post by lavishgail on Apr 28, 2021 23:31:15 GMT -5
Thanks you guy's good idea. If I call she will no I'm ok just can't talk right now. So I'll try popping in. Not sure if I'll be able to next couple of days, I hurt pretty bad from my fall. Thanks everyone! I will take you up on the donuts Sallybrown. We have an apple farm here near me so I'll stop and get the best homemade apple cider donuts you had ever had.  I bring them to my cousins in CT and they later say don't ever bring these again we ate them all haha! So I will take you all up on you're idea's. |
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Post by sallybrown on Apr 29, 2021 6:56:25 GMT -5
Gail - you are a good woman! I am sure Susie will be glad for your company. I didn’t know you fell! Did I miss your post? 🙏 you feel better very soon. ❤️
** JUST SAW YOUR POST ABOUT THE FALL! Sorry! **
😘
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Post by lavishgail on May 1, 2021 19:34:18 GMT -5
Haha ima humble . I bounce back. Sally I wanted to stop but 2 or 3 cars were in the driveway so I felt funny just showing up so I didn't go. But I'll let her know I tried to stop by. If she wants me to come she would maybe answer my texts or calls? So for now I'll wait so she can pick herself up again. Thank you Sallybrown. |
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I bring them to my cousins in CT and they later say don't ever bring these again we ate them all haha! So I will take you all up on you're idea's.