Post by lavishgail on Apr 12, 2021 20:04:24 GMT -5
I wrote this in today's post, but am unsure everyone will see it. It is with deep sadness in my heart and soul John our Special friend has passed away last night peacefully. Susie told me today, I want EVERYONE of his friends to know. She has all the funeral services pre arranged. I believe they did this together. When I get all notices I will let y'all know Susie is very busy I'm sure. Take care my sweetiest Johnny Angel 👼 fly with you're Angels Johnny, we all love you! Sue we are all here for you!
He was a very Gentle soul, who wanted everyone to love one another! Simple. He loved simplicity!
You sure are right Dave, God makes us all different types. But he was always my Johnny Angel 👼. And always will be. Ps. He told Sue that I was the only person I could call my Johnny Angel. He was so cute!
Hi Jade, and all others, I will relay all messages to Susie. She has to go to funeral home today, John will be creamated. And I think no services only Sue will be there I'm not to sure as she is very distraught. But everything was prearranged for Susie. Poor kid!! I will keep everyone in touch.
I was truly heartbroken when Sue let me know. I wasn’t truly prepared. I send prayers and hugs and love with John and hopes for comfort for Sue. I loved how John always said, “My Susie”. I will miss talking g to him. Fly easy dear friend
Post by lavishgail on Apr 15, 2021 17:22:01 GMT -5
Jim, That is beautiful. I can picture John saying that! Did you make that up Jim? I was not ready even tho I knew Oh my gosh the pain of it all. I don't think John wanted to go? He even said will you come with me my Susie? Awwwee...
This is so sad. He was always one to be welcoming on this site. RIP John. I lost another friend a few months ago from copd too. Makes me so sad, I have known quit a few that have passed from the other site I used to belong to and is never easy.
Post by lavishgail on Apr 23, 2021 23:40:58 GMT -5
I'm so sorry to everyone that has a broken heart for John, poor John. Sometimes when he couldn't sleep he would call me and say "well Gail I guess I have C.O.P.D." I would say" oh I ) it me too. And it would make him feel safer I hope, he would calm down and not shake. His shaking got so bad he would get so nerved up. Poor John. He had an awesome life.. Sue had no services just graveside I gueas. Her and a friend w ent bc I though.)
Susie is not well at all. I've been trying to reach out. Does not matter if I feel good or not I'll force my way out! But she can barley talk. I'm sure she's not eating she lost so much weight she's so tiny. Anyone have any ideas for what I can do for her. I ask her if I can bring food maybe I can bring her , her favorite food from Jimmy D's. I think she either gets the pork chops or half of chicken. I'm surely broke right now but in a few days I should have some! Any ideas sally? Jade, I miss you too. Suz, anyone Spike? Anyway I know what I needed but, what I needed is most likely. Not the same Susie needs? Please help me I don't want her to die of a broken 💔💔 and soul! I love all of you! Sally I could dig a big huge hug from you! I have a picture in my mind what you look like, and one thing is you have beautiful shinny eyes and blue right? I'm hearing blue or brown gee right there is the whole spectrum. Help you guys Jim do you have any ideas what I can do for her?
Please everyone if you have any ideas besides mine write them down if you can?
Thank you my friends!!
Maybe I'll just go there unannounced and surprise her. Idk? I'm not the Barger type. She did say anytime I'm welcome! Maybe tomorrow will be good?
Dear Gail - I think what Susie needs is a true friend. If she told you that you are welcome anytime, I would go. I know it will be hard for you to take that step but once you do it will be fine. (I am speaking from personal experience.). We all tend to avoid what makes us uncomfortable...and this is certainly one of those situations. Maybe call and let her know you want to stop by for a bit? Let her get herself ready. I usually say that I need a hug and a chat. Maybe bring a few doughnuts 🍩 or a coffee cake?
I think Susie needs to see someone else who loved John and is mourning his passing.
Post by lavishgail on Apr 28, 2021 23:31:15 GMT -5
Thanks you guy's good idea. If I call she will no I'm ok just can't talk right now. So I'll try popping in. Not sure if I'll be able to next couple of days, I hurt pretty bad from my fall. Thanks everyone! I will take you up on the donuts Sallybrown. We have an apple farm here near me so I'll stop and get the best homemade apple cider donuts you had ever had. I bring them to my cousins in CT and they later say don't ever bring these again we ate them all haha! So I will take you all up on you're idea's.
Haha ima humble . I bounce back. Sally I wanted to stop but 2 or 3 cars were in the driveway so I felt funny just showing up so I didn't go. But I'll let her know I tried to stop by. If she wants me to come she would maybe answer my texts or calls? So for now I'll wait so she can pick herself up again. Thank you Sallybrown.