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Post by lavishgail on Nov 3, 2022 5:22:43 GMT -5
I'm asking for y'all to please say a prayer πππ or fingers crossed π or send in some good luck ππππππ, or whatever you believe in if it's a rock, my husband has to go to Springfield baystate hospital π₯ for heart surgery tomorrow morning π
. He has to have a stent put in his heart valve, the scarey part is that he went in for a procedure and had to be paddled back to life 3xs. I'm really worried π«π. Thank you y'all . Take care ππβ€οΈ I love y'all.
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Post by jim on Nov 3, 2022 5:55:38 GMT -5
Hi Gail, I'm praying all goes well for Bob and he has a speedy recovery.
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Post by sallybrown on Nov 3, 2022 8:41:26 GMT -5
Holding Bob close to in my heart in thoughts and prayers! That is a very good hospital. Praying for the physicians and staff too. Know we are with you! β€οΈ
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Post by lavishgail on Nov 5, 2022 16:58:28 GMT -5
From the bottom of my heart thank you everyone for your prayers I am so thankful God answered all of everybody's prayers and Bob is fine he didn't have to have the stents put in he had three clogged heart valves but they were able to unclog them they blew them out somehow but he cannot do anything for 4 to 5 days.
I just wish there was a way that y'all would know how thankful I really am to y'all ππβ€οΈβ€οΈ... πΊπΊπΊβ£οΈβ£οΈπππππ God bless each and everyone of you! πΊππβ€οΈ My prayers are always with y'all βΊοΈπ₯° ty Sally and Jim for making me feel better!
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Post by sallybrown on Nov 5, 2022 17:08:22 GMT -5
Wonderful news, Gail! ππ» continue. Now take a deep breath! β€οΈ
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Post by lavishgail on Nov 6, 2022 1:47:15 GMT -5
I just did! I have to stay busy when someone close to me is sick π€’.it helps me to not think about the situation. I also scrubbed down the bathroom, put up a nice colorful shower curtain I bought, wash down the toilet , I do this every other day, bc nothing but men use my bathroom. Wish we had 2, one for the men one for the women! So much has happened last few days, our landlord sold our park. He is so full of hot air and lied threw his teeth, telling people he will but there trailers if they are selling? One women and hubby are he went to their home and said I don't buy trailers, so he lied off the bat. I don't trust a word he said. Big talking business man full of pipe dreams and money π° ridden. We could not make the meeting so our Son Billy. Went for us! All I can say is time will tell, this s h I t was told to us when the last new landlord had all these pipe dreams . He is going to cut back all the trees in the long driveway, put in all new piping through out the whole part and see what the law is about putting in dumpsters? He also said he does not care if we add on or even have 10 foot fences, anything to make it look better here. I hope he means it but I doubt it. Lie once you get a second chance lie twice you're all done! I won't tolerate it! Black top driveways, this I can't wait to see them after all is said and done rent goes up 200 dollars more!! Sorry I wrote this in the wrong place my ADHD hate it.
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Post by jim on Nov 6, 2022 6:01:21 GMT -5
Just tell it as it is Gail, helps to vent.
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Post by sallybrown on Nov 6, 2022 7:43:00 GMT -5
Gail - sounds like big changes ahead! Hang in there! π€
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Post by lavishgail on Nov 6, 2022 22:10:04 GMT -5
Thank you guys.. I keep most all my real stuff inside this is true! I only talk here with you guys. I get scared to y'all will get sick of listening to me? My husband does. And lately all he does is yell at me and all I'm trying to do is help him, so forget it he can do everything himself. I told him to clam it up. If his ex wife can find a nice looking new man at her age with no teeth I have my own teeth maybe someone would like to be with me. He sure don't. He's been so freaking mean to me I hate it. If he keep up this crap I'll leave. I don't care if I love on skid row in a box rather that than listen to his big fat mouth! There I vented!
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Post by jim on Nov 7, 2022 0:26:58 GMT -5
I'm sure that now you have let that out, you will feel a bit better Gail.
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Post by sallybrown on Nov 7, 2022 7:07:42 GMT -5
Thinking of you, dear Gail! Feel free to speak your mind to us as much (and are often) as you want. Thatβs what friends are for. Not good to keep things bottled up inside. β€οΈ
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Post by barb7330 on Nov 8, 2022 20:48:30 GMT -5
Prayers for you Gail...Hope Bob gets feeling better, that's probably why he's cranky plus he's worried I'll bet.
Just had my Son here to pick up my one chair....It lifts you up so you can stand. My Daughter in law has herniated discs and she's in terrible pain...Hopefully the chair will give her some relief....She has a 10 month old baby so my Son has a lady coming in for a few days to stay with her. Wish I was younger but at 85 I don't think I'd be any help for her. Please say some prayers for her...
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Post by jim on Nov 8, 2022 23:10:33 GMT -5
That is so nice of you to give up your chair for your daughter in law, praying she gets all better very soon.
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Post by sallybrown on Nov 9, 2022 7:54:57 GMT -5
Barb - ππ» for your daughter-in-law. What a difficult situation with a little one in the picture. You are a good woman! Please keep us updated. β€οΈ
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Post by lavishgail on Nov 9, 2022 22:18:47 GMT -5
Thank you all for letting me vent. It sure does help to get stuff off my shoulders!
Barb I think that is so very nice of you to give up you're special chair for you're daughter in law, how nice! I will say prayers for her too. Take care Barb! May God bless you all. XOXO π Love, Gail.
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Post by jade on Nov 12, 2022 16:20:28 GMT -5
Barb, your kindness is amazing, all will be fine with your son, his wife and young child, ππ . Gail ππ, you got a lot on your plate, so sad. Thinking of you β₯οΈ
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Post by lavishgail on Nov 12, 2022 18:05:31 GMT -5
I'll be ok, always am. I guess if I haven't by now then I guess I never will leave! If I was to leave than I would have the first few months. I saw the red flags, but I pushed them away, I did not want to go through a 3rd break up. I had 2 young children that by now, have been through a divorce, and a boyfriend girlfriend breakup, by now my boys were 7 and 11, my youngest was 3 on my divorce, my oldest was 7, already knew too much πππ my poor kids. I brought them to therapy and talk to other "single Mothers, nothing helped" we did everything together never alone. But one is always great, one is like we never brought him up? I will never get it? Anyone? The younger one went to work with me at 7 bc I could not afford a babysitter for 2 children but only one so I let my oldest go to the sitters and youngest went to work with me every weekend Friday, Saturday, and Sunday. I worked at that time only 3 days a week as it was starting fall and paychecks were very small. Had to drive one hour away and back 2 hours a day "single" 2 kids on 117.00 for 3 days a week. Oh my gosh no way could not do it, pay rent, gas, ele, phone, back then kitchen very small look into living area could not afford tv, we were readers anyway and gameboard players and outside people. Skiers and skaters things like that, in the summer hikers, swimming, baseball, football watchers,, . wish my son's took it up but am glad they didn't as well. Baseball was enough haha. Anyhow take care I'm feeling better thank you my familyβ€οΈπππβ€οΈ
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Post by sallybrown on Nov 13, 2022 7:35:02 GMT -5
Dear Gail - sending you β€οΈ. Glad youβre feeling better.
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Post by lavishgail on Nov 13, 2022 19:12:57 GMT -5
Caught it yay!
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