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Post by Blossom/Jackie W. on Aug 16, 2012 14:49:27 GMT -5
Gotta tell ya ...... I'm sad....  Many of you will know/remember this person...... Vic I've known him since I was first diagnosed with COPD; met him on line; even before this forum. He's the epitome IMHO of what a "gentleman” is.... and, he’s the first one to always remind us/celebrate when we turn another century marker here on the forum’s membership. Recently I asked if he'd update his original post (from back when I was building the main website) I was intending (7 years later); from when he had posted for newcomers to this disease copdcanada.ca/a_few_more_letters.htm (his is Page 2) of welcomes to newcomers to this disease. You see; Vic is no youngster himself and beyond having COPD and Raynaud's Syndrome (in his hands), he's also been the primary caregiver of his love... Rita for a number of years. He still is. Rita has diabetes. Many, many times Vic has had to care for her ane her legs legs when they ulcer and at this time they’re doing e’thing possible now to waylay dialysis.. She also had dementia that has progressed significantly. Like anyone with COPD; things become more and more challenging...... Several years ago I asked how he could do it all; especially with COPD. His response….. “She would do it for me.” That says it all IMO. He asked for prayers and out of respect I was very cautious as to the info I shared here when I asked Vic if I could post. He gave the O.K. So….. I ask for your healing thoughts, prayers, whatever you believe in, for this wonderful couple and… this very “gentle man.” With love and respect Vic....  |
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Post by sandy07 on Aug 16, 2012 15:25:05 GMT -5
Thoughts and prayers going out to Rita and Vic as they go thru this challenge. May God bless you and keep you.
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Post by Deborah on Aug 16, 2012 19:21:42 GMT -5
My heart goes out to Vic and his family. His letter set such a wonderful tone for a newbie like myself, so I would like to add my prayers to others.
Deborah
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Post by susanny on Aug 16, 2012 20:21:14 GMT -5
My prayers for Vic and his wife. Do you know, since coming to this forum I have been introduced to some of the most special people on this earth. It seems in the 'real' world in which I inhabit, couples facing the kind of troubles that we do seem to fall apart, but here I have seen so much tenderness and love and devotion that I have a renewed believe in love and couples staying together in the face of adversity.God bless us all!
Vic, you are a true man!
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Post by peter on Aug 16, 2012 21:08:40 GMT -5
Add My Thoughts and prayers going out to Rita and Vic, May God Bless both of you.
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Post by bobbioh on Aug 16, 2012 21:12:40 GMT -5
Vic, Im so sorry to hear this,You are as good a man as your dogs think you are. Hang in there. My thoughts and Prayers are with you and your wife God Bless you both.  |
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Post by sask5 on Aug 16, 2012 22:34:55 GMT -5
Prayers being sent
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Post by John on Aug 17, 2012 6:44:20 GMT -5
Your my thoughts & prayers Vic
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Post by linndie2 on Aug 17, 2012 9:05:43 GMT -5
Vic& Rita, your both in my prayers and thoughts.
Sometimes words escape me, the right words, so I will let my heart speak and tell you both I wish you the best on this Journey, Vic your words struck my heart, when you told Jackie "She would do it for me" That says it all, that is real love and devotion.
Love Linndie
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Post by Colleen-Pa on Aug 17, 2012 9:20:31 GMT -5
Many prayers going out to Vic & Rita.....he is so devoted to his Rita, it just warms your heart to see this kind of love ~
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Post by Wildoats on Aug 17, 2012 10:16:17 GMT -5
Prayers and healing thoughts. Love like that is an endangered species.
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Post by Vic on Aug 18, 2012 9:44:21 GMT -5
Thank you all for the wonderful prayers and sentiments, and especially to Wonder Woman who has made me seem like some sort of saint. I assure you, I definitely have Feet of Clay. Thank you all for Rita, too . . . I'm sure if she could she would thank you herself. -- Vic
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Post by annabob on Aug 18, 2012 10:54:16 GMT -5
My thoughts & prayers go out to you from the bottom of my heart.
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Post by tousabella on Aug 19, 2012 18:01:24 GMT -5
Many thoughts and a ton of prayers for these two....a
great gift for anyone who have met them or have contact with.
Blessings
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Post by maryaz on Aug 19, 2012 23:18:10 GMT -5
Vic, you and Rita are always on my mind. I know it is difficult for you to stay in touch. I so appreciate it when I hear from you. Know that you are both in my prayers. Rita is so blessed that you love her so much to care for her. That is how Joe was with me. These are the times that you truly learn the meaning of love. I cannot find the right words. You are special.  |
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Post by sallybrown on Aug 20, 2012 7:05:30 GMT -5
Dear Vic and Rita - Prayers for healing, strength and peace being sent...and will continue. Know that many people support you and are at your side in spirit. Everyone loves a love story...
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Post by Blossom/Jackie W. on Aug 20, 2012 8:48:57 GMT -5
Here, here Sally! And Vic; if the halo fits, (and I'm pretty sure it does!)..... wear it.  |
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Post by aero63 on Aug 20, 2012 19:51:27 GMT -5
Sending thoughts your way, Vic, for you and Rita.
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Post by wendyco on Aug 25, 2012 19:17:57 GMT -5
Vic my thoughts and prayers are with you and Rita and hope you have the strength to take care of your needs as well as your sweet wife. you have been a good friend through the years and I respect you with all my heart.... hugs my dear friend  |
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Post by mary57 on Aug 29, 2012 19:40:26 GMT -5
Vic, you and Rita are in my thoughts and prayers, for the continued strength and ability to meet life's challenges. Take care of each other and God Bless
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